You are worthy of the ultimate happiness. You deserve it and should accept it. Promise me that you won’t feel guilty about it when you get it. Guilt is not invited to your happiness party – you won’t even tell him where it is. If he asks about it, you should be like “No, I think you’re thinking of something else…” and then run away very quickly.
We’ve been programmed to feel as though we don’t deserve what it is that we truly desire. Aside from wanting to manifest material things such as the latest car or a big home – when was the last time you sat down with yourself and asked “What do I want?”
Perhaps this question comes to you with some hesitance. Our subconscious mind is linked to referring back to past thought patterns and beliefs that we have grown up with, some being “I’m not good enough” or “this is too good to be true”, yet the reality of this is that these limiting beliefs about yourself and what your life CAN look like, are all here to show you where you have poured your energy out into other places, people or things that are no longer serving your highest good.
At times we feel as though if we just had that one last piece of the puzzle brought into our lives – whether it’s a relationship, a job, a vacation destination, a raise or promotion – we’d be at our ultimate happiness! Yet, when those things don’t manifest in your timing… or at all even, it can be frustrating, disappointing and even discouraging in some aspects.
So as you sit there – pouting and grumpy over the fact that the last piece of the puzzle was just out of arms reach – ask yourself, “what joy and bliss could have (insert said thing here) brought into my life that I’m apparently not experiencing right now?”
Yes, this is deep. Yes, this exercise will help you get to the bottom of it. Yes, this can bring up a ton of other questions but you have all the answers within.
At some point or another you’ll begin to realize that whether or not you have x,y or z in your life – you’ll always have yourself. You’ll always be able to rely on yourself for everything and anything! You are worthy of the life you desire only after you take back your power from expectations, toxic situations and anything else that is standing in the way between you and yourself.
At this point, you’re hopefully able to connect the dots and see that suddenly when you align with your truest nature… the things meant for you will always find you because it is your divine birth right to be happy! It is in your life blueprint, so to speak, to work towards becoming the healthiest and happiest YOU there there is.
Remember, there is only one You, and only You hold the power to make this life your best life. You are worthy because you are You. Your happiness and health is found inside of yourself above anything else. So next time you make a wish and it doesn’t come true according to your expectations – take a step back and see it as a gift. Perhaps something greater, something more aligned with who you are becoming or something that is going to sweep you off your feet is going to replace whatever it was that you had originally hoped for.
When you are in this place of finding your worth and joy within while sprinkling in some gratitude into the equation, you’ll begin to see that no matter what, life is always happening for you… not to you. So as your deepest wishes begin to come true, emotional fulfillment will reign through all aspects of your life and you’ll thank yourself for putting in the work to clear away the need to rely on external circumstances to bring you happiness.
Like a smart person once said… “the happiness you feel within is the icecream… and all the outer manifestations that you cultivate through positive thinking and gratitude are just the cherries on top,” – or maybe I just made that up. Either way, it’s true!
until next week,